I had often though there was something wrong with me, I am such a PRUDE. I would never initiate sex, talk about what I do and don't like and would get a little embarrassed when looking through the boobie shots in ZOO. It got to the point where I decided to seek help, I got the number of a therapist, but never made the call.
I once saw an episode of Opera chatting about how important SEX is to a relationship and to set aside date nights. We have been doing this for a few years now, Friday night is DATE night. This way no matter what else happens during the week, we will have time together on date night. On the same episode they interviewed a lady who gave her husband a year of sex for his 40th birthday. They then wrote a book about it 365 nights. I haven't read it but should definitely check it out.
So you may be asking 'what happened 4 weeks ago?' Channel surfing one Saturday night we came across a documentary called 'The Perfect Vagina.' Yes my cheeks did flush but I was intrigued as to what this show was about. It was actually quite fascinating. Thanks to the Brazilian Wax young girls can now see their inner workings and are comparing them to what they see in magazines. So now not only do they worry that they are not the right body shape they are now having surgery to correct labia that may be protruding.
With this new knowledge I started talking about the show with other people and started to feel more and more liberated. I could talk about 'rude' bits without getting embarrassed. Which has now led to me asking friends about their SEX lives. I am fascinated at the different scenarios that are unfolding and the openness of my informants. As you can imagine we are all so varied in our personalities and lives, as too are our SEX lives.
So as I discover my inner Vixen and unleash her, you may be asked to share some tips and secrets. So watch out!!
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